What I will not do in 2012

With all the new year goals, action steps, and motivators swirling around in my head lately, today I decided to also jot down some things that I am NOT going to do this year.

"You can do anything but not everything"

Image from here, via pinterest

  1. I will not avoid inviting people over because our apartment is a mess (it usually is) and small (unfortunately it never has magically gotten bigger). (Also, this post has some great advice about hosting overnight guests when you live in a small space.)
  2. I will not miss an opportunity to go fishing with Garret. One of my 8 goals for this year is to catch more fish. No joke. My motivation is two-fold: 1) Garret loves fishing and loves when we have “Shoulder-to-shoulder” time, and 2) I’ve been in a fishing slump for a few years and with G’s help, and maybe even with some pretty pink spinner lures, I’m determined to stinkin’ get out of it!
  3. I will not spend lunch breaks indoors (as long as weather permits). Sunlight, a breeze, and room to breath does wonders for for me from 12-1. Instead of staying in my little office nook, I will eat outside – simply because it’s good for me.
  4. We will not go out of town more than we stay in town. I love visiting family and friends, and we’re 3 hours or less from most of them, so traveling on the weekends is our norm. But, I’m going to work on maintaining a balance this year; staying home on the weekends really helps me feel refreshed and also more on top of my responsibilities.
  5. I will not buy more books than I am physically/mentally capable of reading. This is one of my worst habits. I’ve got a reading schedule for all the great books I’ve already got, and I’m working to stick to it.
Posted in About, Words and writing | Tagged , , , , | 2 Comments

Grateful for 2011

Christmas 2011

My typical New Years Day routine is as follows:

  1. Identify all of the things wrong with myself: weight, attitudes, production, etc..
  2. List generalized changes that I can make that will surely “fix” all my issues.
  3. Write them down and then ignore them after a week.
  4. Beat myself up about the lack of change when I unearth the list a few months later.

So, I’m trying to do it differently this year. Instead of trying to fix things, I’m saying that I know I can’t fix me. I think that what I can do is walk in dependence on the Lord, and then make wise decisions and actions towards a life more full of and focused on love, grace, hard work, and creativity.

But.

There’s this other thing I’ve been reminded to do first.

I want to remember and say thanks, say grace, for all of the good.

By God’s grace, 2011 was a good year. My second full year out of college and working at a big girl job. My first full calendar year of being married. The first time in a very long time that I worked on creative pursuits purposefully and often in my free time.

But, in 2011 I also failed at many, many things. Some failures were obvious and some weren’t. Some required Herculean patience from my husband.

But the thing about those failures is that they’re each cataloged  in a tiny library in my brain, complete with Dewey Decimal numbers and everything.

So darn it, this New Year’s Day I’m not picking myself apart and I’m not publishing goals or resolutions. I love seeking vision and specific babysteps and making changes on purpose, and Garret and I are doing that together this year, but I’m making a point this year to be grateful first, and then give myself a break.

I’m going to remind myself that PROGRESS WAS MADE in 2011.

It was not a loss. I am not a loss. Our imperfect life is not a loss. 2011 was full of life, gifts and second chances, and God is not done. The story He is writing is vast, and shockingly it includes us broken, new-years-resolution-breaking, not-in-perfect-shape folks, too.

So without further ado, here are my Good Things That Happened in 2012:

  • We got to go on a wonderful road trip to DC and a great trip to Missouri with my family.
  • We continued to enjoy our Home Group and the sweet friends and Bible study there.
  • Garret and I made significant progress in learning how to stick to a budget.
  • We made a semi-major purchase with cash. (Whoop!)
  • Changes in my office brought new opportunities.
  • I managed a new online newsletter at work.
  • I published blog posts for every day of October for my 31 Days of Creativity Babysteps.
  • Readership of this blog increased as a result of that series.
  • Garret got a 4.0 in the spring!
  • I was a Second-Shooter for a photographer friend at a wedding and learned SO much!
  • We paid off a store credit card. The balance was very small, but every babystep counts!
  • We stuck to our Christmas budget, and I made homemade gifts. (Post coming soon.)
  • I ran a 10K – a distance personal best.
  • I set a new 5K personal best time.
  • I finished more books than I had in years.
  • We joined a gym.
  • I practiced swimming. (Still need A LOT more practice!)
  • We continued supporting and writing to our Compassion sponsored child, and I helped in small ways with our church’s Compassion ministry.

So, I’d encourage you to do the same – write out the things that were good this year. 2011 was not a loss. Remember the blessings, the successes, the hopes fulfilled. And then look forward to 2012. 

Posted in Spiritual encouragement, Words and writing | Tagged , , , , , , , | 6 Comments

time to read

quiet shop

For me, September and October were months of writing. Much of my September free time was spent preparing for the 31 Days series, and then October included filling in the gaps and making the series happen. Lots of discipline and writing and putting myself out there.

And so, because I can’t go on like that in this season of my life, November and December have been more internal months – months of spending my not-at-work time reading, having family time, and preparing for Thanksgiving and Christmas.

Quiet lunch breaks with a blanket and a good book – those are at the tip-top of my gratitude list right now.

Silence has felt utterly delicious lately.

And maybe, just maybe, I’m learning to slow down, learning that slowing down is a good thing. Stillness and quietness and reading – that’s what I’m craving this winter, as I told Garret the other night, “I’m tired of TV, and all I want to do is read. Cool?” Heh.

And so, I sat beside him and read about gratitude, while he took an after-work nap (he was getting over strep throat). As it’s finally feeling like winter here in Texas, we turn on the electric blanket, and I curl up with a book that turns my soul towards warmth and truth, and really, that just hits the spot.

So, for your amusement upon seeing my habit of reading too much too slowly, here is a recap of what I’ve been reading:

  • Traveling Mercies, by Anne Lamott: In the past year or so, I’ve started visiting the public libraries more often. (FREE books, y’all! Also, my mom is a librarian, so every library is like a wonderful treasure hunt to me.) This book was literally the first book I’ve finished before it was due. Lamott’s writing is raw and wonderful, and her stories give unique depth and sensitivity to topics like faith and loss. In addition to Bittersweet, and A Million Miles, this book added to my recent love for excellent memoirs. I am one of those people who write all over book margins, so since this one didn’t belong to me, I had to scribble pages and pages of notes from it into a notebook. Bottom line: It’s an easy and inspiring read that I highly recommend.
  • Two Part Invention, by Madeleine L’engle: Another library find, and another memoir, this book has been just lovely so far. I haven’t finished it yet, but honestly I’ve been enthralled by how interesting L’engle’s life was. Earlier this fall I’d been hoping to get a hold of some of her other nonfiction books soon, like Walking on Water, but this was also a good place to start. Her thoughts on love and marriage have been really interesting and helpful, and just learning about her life has been enjoyable as well. Who knew that she started out in theatre, for many years, and that her husband was on All My Children!?
  • Faithful Women and their Extraordinary God, by Noel Piper (Thanks for the lend, Jenn!): I first read this collection of five biographies back in college in a ladies group with Christine. I’ve wanted to reread it since Garret and I got married, so I put it on the list. I definitely recommend these women’s stories; for me, they help me remember why seemingly monotonous daily devotion, discipline, and action really matter.
  • One Thousand Gifts by Ann Voskamp: I’ve been moving slowly through this since my mom gave it to me last Christmas, but not because it’s unmoving. It’s the opposite, actually. Each and every chapter gives me a lot to chew on. (And, like I said – I read too much too slowly.) I’m on track to finish it by the new year and I have finally started a gratitude journal, which has been really helpful in fighting off discontentment and general grumpiness. I think Voskamp’s flowery prose is not for everyone, but besides that, this book has a powerful, life-giving, perspective-shifting message of seeing the life and gift in everyday things and tasks, so much undeserved grace everywhere you look.
  • The Opposite of Art by Athol Dickson: I picked this up in the library because it sounded like a fun novel. I’m about halfway through and I’ve enjoyed the story line so far, but sometimes Dickson’s prose is too much, too thick. So, the jury is still out on this.
  • The Glorious Impossible by Madeleine L’Engle: I was checking out the Madeleine L’Engle website the other day, looking at the amazingly long list of her books, and this title stuck out to me. I discovered that it was a beautiful Christmas book, wished it was a tad cheaper, and filed it in my mind. Then that next weekend at the library, I found it and was pumped! It’s illustrated with with Frescoes from the Scrovegni Chapel by Giotto and tells the story of Christ. I recommend it for unique and lovely Christmas reading.

And… only two of those are on my 25 before 25 list. Fail. I guess I’ll be adding on some bonus books to that list! Or… making some replacements.

So, what have you been reading lately?

Posted in Books | Tagged , , , , , , | 2 Comments

making

I’ve been quiet here since October, going from one extreme to the other. It’s felt cozy, turning introspective after writing so much; I’ve taken time to stretch and read and make.

Here is a recent look at a few nooks of my home and some things that I have made in the past month or so.

gratitude_craftI made this after seeing this pin; I made new typography for the quote, printed it, and mounted it on framed layers of scrapbook paper.

new_gallery_wall

I also rearranged the gallery wall in our living room. Too bad it’s on the stairwell/door wall and therefore the pictures will always be crooked. Hanging pictures straight and level is not one of my gifts!

blessed_craft

I’m in a monthly scrapbooking group, and this was one of our recent projects. I loved how it turned out! (It reads “abundantly blessed,” but when I first made it, I spelled it “abunTantly” – yeesh!)

pumpkin_shelf

tiny_pumpkins

The above pumpkins were pretty much the extent of Fall decor in our apartment, but I’m excited about decorating for Christmas next week!

On that note, happy Thanksgiving to you.

May you take the time to slow down and really see the beautiful people and places that surround you, reveling in the gratitude.

Posted in DIY, tutorials, downloads, Just for fun | Tagged , , , , , , | 5 Comments

Finale and giveaway winner {31 Days}

So, I can’t believe I made it through 31 Days! Thank you so much for reading along and I hope that this series was helpful to you and your work. My posting in November will definitely be much lighter, but I will continue to focus on creativity, photography, writing, crafts and general adventures.

What have you learned from thinking on creativity babysteps this month? I’ve been reminded of the value of discipline, risk-taking, and collaborating.  I’d love to hear from you in the comments!

And now, time to announce the giveaway winner!

giveaway prizes

The winner is comment #2 – Kathy T! Kathy, I’ll be sending you an email soon!

random_number

{31 Days of Creativity Babysteps}

Posted in Words and writing | Tagged , , , , , | Leave a comment

Inspiration from Anne Lamott {31 Days}

lake_chair

“Writing and reading decrease our sense of isolation. They depen and widen and expand our sense of life: they feed the soul. When writers make us shake our heads with the exactness of their prose and their truths, and even make us laugh about ourselves or life, our buoyancy is restored. We are given a shot at dancing with, or at least clapping along with, the absurdity of life, instead of being squashed by it over and over again. It’s like singing on a boat during a terrible storm at sea. You can’t stop the raging storm, but singing can change the hearts and spirits of the people who are together on that ship.”

— Anne LamottBird by Bird: Some Instructions on Writing and Life

Also, I’ll post the winner of the giveaway tomorrow!

{31 Days of Creativity Babysteps}

Posted in Words and writing | Tagged , , , , , , , | Leave a comment